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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 24.06.2025 02:48

How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Did your siblings abuse you growing up? Not your parents, specifically your siblings, or other children in the household you were raised with.

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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That's it for today.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I've never read the book. What did Dorian Grey do that was so immoral and sinful?

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.